I am 34, dp is 40, have been together 3 1/2 years. We have a really good relationship, after a few dodgy ones when I was younger...
I have never been particularly maternal, get on great with my older brothers two boys, and other kids, but I wasn't ever too sold on having any myself. Except in the past year, I have started to get increasingly broody, and I don't know why. The issue is this, though. Dp has no children, has never wanted children, went private to have the snip at 27 to ensure that he could never have children. He is adopted, and his biological parents were pretty awful, although his adoptive father and partner are lovely.
So...are these feelings just a phase? I couldn't imagine not being with dp, but at some moments the idea of not having any children makes me so sad inside...but what if that just passes after a while? But what if it doesn't?? I hate being so confused as I am normally pretty together with things...
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Should I forget about children?
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emmcan · 21/11/2016 10:18
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