To BIL wife.
She brothers Dw always seems to have a dig about my work status every time I see her which is thankfully not often.
I have 3 girls. One secondary aged one primary and one who has just started nursery. Dh for a number of reasons is not hands on around the house and with DC. Times were really hard when Dd3 was tiny because of this but now Dd3 is at school part time things are less fraught. I work very part time on a self employed basis and I am studying at college for 5 hours per week.
Almost every time I see her she keeps implying I must have do much time on my hands or asking when I am going back to work. The last time I saw her I pointed out that I do work but that clearly doesn't count as I rarely work when Dd3 is at nursery .
Even my 5 hours at college has gone unnoticed.
Ainu to be fed up of this and how do I nicely get her to stop. Fwiw she is a nice person generally but we seem to have opposing views on work life balance and some aspects of parenting.
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Luvwales74 · 15/11/2016 22:20
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