So I was at softplay earlier with my daughter 22 months. We go every Tuesday and see the same faces.. I'm not chummy chummy with anyone there but it's a lovely softplay and fairly quiet so it's not as hellish as others.
Anyway my daughter was busy playing today when a girl who is exactly a year older (I've chatted with her dad a couple of times their birthdays are on the same day) shoved my DD. I let it slide (my DD is fairly tough) then about 5 mins later she did it again. I passed comment that she's wasn't really being herself today (she's normally ok) and her dad just looked at me.. Then about 20 mins later she shoved my DD so hard she came off she ground (not an exaggeration)
Now.. I'm aware we are in a soft play so the landing was padded but I when in to rescue my DD. Took her back to the table I was sat at. Checked her over and gave her a drink and one of those little chocolate animal biscuit things that have been around for years. The other child comes over and helps herself to a biscuit. I took the biscuit back which led to screaming ab dabs from the little angel (note the sarcasm)
The dad comes over and asks what happened. I explain that I took the biscuit back as it a. Hadnt been offered and b. His child had been terribly behaved and I wasn't about to reward her for shoving my daughter and upsetting her. With that he switches saying she is only a baby. (She's nearly 3) she doesn't understand.
I'm sorry to say a turned a bit nasty. I laughed and told him my daughter isn't even 2 yet and she's knows you don't hurt other children and you certainly don't help yourself to other people's food ( she will always say please and wait to be handed what ever she is after)
Was I unreasonable? I'm doubting myself!!
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DiddysMammy · 15/11/2016 18:18
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