I'm booked into hospital for a fairly major operation - an abdominal hysterectomy. It's not a secret but I'm not broadcasting the fact, will tell people if they ask.
Yesterday two separate people when told why I wasn't going to be around launched into a great long story about someone they knew who'd had a hysterectomy and was seriously ill / in a lot of pain / took a year to recover / got an infection / was suing the hospital / never the same again.
Is it too much to expect that when you hear someone is having an operation that you limit your comments to something like "Hope it goes well, give me a shout if you need anything"? It's the same when you're pregnant, everyone is falling over themselves to tell you how AWFUL labour is.
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To think people need to stop being voices of doom regarding hospital treatment?
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LunaLoveg00d · 15/11/2016 08:41
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