DS9 is being assesed for ASD and ADHD. He has 2 friends at school.
DS needs everything to run right. No changes without notice, no lying, no cheating. Rules are rules.
In school and at home he is very quick to lose his temper. He sees red, gets into you're face and tries his arms at you. He also doesn't really have a range of humour so doesn't get jokes at all.
He has been losing his temper with his friends, they change rules without telling him or extend boundaries. He lose his temper.
One of DS's friends ... I'll call him Jim is a bit of a cooky character himself. He's complained to his mum that DS loses temper and hits out.
Jim's mum and I are friendly. She drops her kids off at the bus stop and I look after them do she can shoot off to work. If she's not there at pick up I'll wait with them. We have each other's mobile numbers and are Facebook friends.
My other DS is disabled and has spent lots of time in hospital ... It's been stressful but our lives are always like this ... We have periods where he is hospitalised.
DF has written to the school to complain about my DS hitting and being angry towards Jim.
She then acted like nothing had happened and was all Hi to me... Can I leave the kids with you?
I said no as my son is a danger to yours apparently. I asked why she felt like she couldn't speak to me. I see her twice daily. If the shoe was on the other foot of course id have a little chat, no go and report to the school via letter. I find this extreme. It doesn't paint my DS in a good light and the letter is now on is school records.
I'm so annoyed that my friend wouldn't discuss this with me first.
She's told Jim to ignore DS so he won't look at him now and DS walks on playground alone as he is petrified of hurting his friends. I know DS shouldn't lose his temper but he has no control.... And we are seeking help for him but without a diagnosis we can't do anything. My friend knew this and we have discussed previously DS's issues.
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DollopofTrollop · 14/11/2016 10:35
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