Just want some views on this situation..long sorry will try and keep it brief as possible..
My dd (9) started new school this September. After initially seeming to settle really well she began crying when I left saying she missed me. We put it down to separation anxiety for a while and the new school. As the weeks went by her anxiety grew and grew. She was crying from the moment she woke up (sometimes in the middle of the night too) and it was horrendous at school. I said to the school on numerous occasions that I felt there was more to her behaviour and asked them to investigate but nothing was done.
After weeks and weeks of this I woke up one night to the sound of her crying. After a lot of coaxing she finally told me that another child at the school asked her to play a game in the woods ( where it seems the kids can play unsupervised). This child asked dd on 3 separate occasions to play a game called hospitals that involved this child asking my dd to touch her (my dd daughter said she wanted my dd to touch her bottom). My dd told the child she didn't like it and didn't want to play it. This child then told my dd not to tell anyone about the 'game'. This child then began asking my dd every morning 'have you told anyone' and started being really nasty.
We are not happy with how the school has handled the whole situation and to cut a long story short have removed her from the school.
I have since found out that this child has done this before (forcibly tried to remove a girls pants) and used threats against the child to stop her telling anyone.
The child who did this to my dd is also new to the school but the mother didn't tell the school about her child's past wanting her to have a 'clean slate'.
The schools handling of this has been woeful and this child is still at the school and in my opinion the other children remain at risk of the same thing happening to them.
The child in question is vulnerable too I think. It has been suggested to me that her behaviour suggests that she has either witnessed abuse or has been abused herself. I'm not interested in throwing anyone under the bus but am I morally obligated to tell anyone about this if the school don't??????
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susie2999 · 13/11/2016 21:47
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