I have two kids, and I run a business which means I work in the evenings. My business deals with teaching children after school do I don't have much choice in the hours.
My Dh also works full time and probably goes on 6-8 short (2/3 days) business trips a year.
My parents live 35 mins away and sometimes when Dh business trips collide with my work I need them for childcare, which they are is happy to do. This usually works well and they love the time with thier grandkids. Sometimes they can't do it and I have a childminder and friends as back up but they are usually my first choice.
My sister also has two kids, she lives a little further away from our parents ( 70mins or so) she doesn't work, and her Dhs job doesn't involve going away. She neither wants or needs childcare as much as I do.
Yet for some reason Mum has decided that. Its not fair that she is doing more for me than my sister, and seeing more of my children than my neices and refused to help out again until she's 'done the same for your sister'
I haven't asked her to sit them since July but I do.need two dates in the next month
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To think this is s strange way to go about things
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fishandlilacs · 13/11/2016 21:00
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