I have 4 kids what does he expect?

(145 Posts)
Busybeesbum Sun 13-Nov-16 17:16:21

Grrr. Ive been seeing a new man for a few weeks and last night we had sex. Afterwards he was basically moaning but trying to be polite! His words were 'youve got a great body for a mum of 4 but down below yikes!' Wtf?

LaContessaDiPlump Sun 13-Nov-16 17:18:10

Well that has saved you some time - bin him! What a dickhead hmm

NoFuckingRoomOnMyBroom Sun 13-Nov-16 17:18:17

He sounds a charmer, a real prince among men hmm
Wouldn't be seeing him again but that's me...

Blossomdeary Sun 13-Nov-16 17:18:25

Stop seeing him.

Ebb Sun 13-Nov-16 17:18:36

hmm I hope you dumped him!

missyB1 Sun 13-Nov-16 17:18:38

Tell him to drop dead and don't contact him again!
You don't need someone like that in your life.

pinkieandperkie Sun 13-Nov-16 17:18:45

Charming.

Busybeesbum Sun 13-Nov-16 17:19:03

I know then he started trying to back track frigging loser!

aginghippy Sun 13-Nov-16 17:21:10

He said 'yikes'? About your vagina? Just show him the door. YANBU

KingJoffreysRestingCuntface Sun 13-Nov-16 17:21:18

If only all blokes were like him. The time we'd save...

He can fuck off.

Pisses me off when men make comments about women's genitals but aren't ashamed of the mess they have hanging there. Looks like something that should be hanging out of a shark's mouth.

Maybe he's insecure about his size?

Busybeesbum Sun 13-Nov-16 17:22:27

He really wasnt all that either. He actually told me i had a huge V

ChampsMum Sun 13-Nov-16 17:23:58

How rude of him!
Don't speak to him again flowers

VimFuego101 Sun 13-Nov-16 17:24:19

Tell him it probably just feels that way because his penis is so small.

Sounds like you've had a lucky escape tbh.

PoldarksBreeches Sun 13-Nov-16 17:24:42

Please tell me you dumped him immediately?

Busybeesbum Sun 13-Nov-16 17:25:07

My last baby was almost 10lb but come on! You dont say stuff like thathmm

pinkieandperkie Sun 13-Nov-16 17:25:32

How did you respond?

Bluntness100 Sun 13-Nov-16 17:25:37

Omg, that actually made me open my mouth in shock. Bin him immediately, what a loser.

Losgunna Sun 13-Nov-16 17:25:39

Wow what a fucknugget. Show him the door op you can do better than that!

Busybeesbum Sun 13-Nov-16 17:26:00

Yes i told him hes not staying for breakfast and to lose my number

Trills Sun 13-Nov-16 17:26:20

He's rude.

You don't want to date someone rude.

Therefore you don't want to date him.

If you date him, he'll be rude some more. To you, and to other people you don't want him being rude to.

TitaniasCloset Sun 13-Nov-16 17:26:46

That's just so nasty. Don't ever see him again and thank god he showed himself up. I think a lot of us are insecure about our down belows after having kids, even if you do a lot of kegel there is still scarring and whatever.

monkeysox Sun 13-Nov-16 17:27:00

He's an arsehole get rid.

TheCatsMother99 Sun 13-Nov-16 17:27:08

Please dump him by text saying that you're not doing it face to face as it will save his embarrassment but he's not all that in the trouser department and you're used to a far more generous lover.

MissVictoria Sun 13-Nov-16 17:27:50

For what it's worth, please don't let it get you down or make you self conscious.
Vaginas are super stretchy, and they shrink back pretty well after even multiple births, especially if you do kegels/toning exercises with or without the aid of a toning machine or implement. Ok you won't be virgin tight, but you'll be far from gaping. No matter how experienced people are, first times with new partners are like first times in general, you have different preferences, and it takes time to get to know them and work together. He sounds really very childish, and i'm amazed if anyone would be willing to sleep with him a second time.

Palomb Sun 13-Nov-16 17:27:51

You should have told him your previous partners haven't had any concerns but then they've all been bigger

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