Hi Ladies
I'm really annoyed at both myself and my DM. I know I was probably stupid and naive and it's my own fault...
4 years ago I stupidly agreed that my DM could apply for a catalogue as she couldn't afford Xmas for my DB and DS. My DF had very nearly died earlier that year with sepsis and was out of work, they had no money.
I felt so sorry for them all and just wanted to help. I was only 20 at the time and didn't think how it would affect me getting a mortgage in the future etc. She told me she had spent £700, I was fine with that, and that she was making the monthly payments. All good.
I've just checked my credit score online and the report has shown my DM has a balance of £1560 on the catalogue account! I'm shocked!
It's fairly obvious that she's been spending more than what we agreed. Credit limit has gone from £1000 to £5000 and that's worrying!
I'm angry at DM but mostly at myself! How do I broach this with DM? I know she won't see the problem as she's 'making the minimum payments and is never late' but it's affecting my credit score! Me and DP have recently had DD and want to buy a house hopefully next year!
Stupid, stupid, stupid!!!
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LouBlue1507 · 03/11/2016 20:09
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