Ok so I usually put loads of thought into Christmas and birthday presents and last year my hubby did his mum a really brilliant birthday present (birthdays are important to me loads more than Christmas but apparently this is the opposite with in laws even though they're not religious and my family are) and we got her a couple of small but thoughtful Christmas presents and then she got really upset (after we left) about how little we'd spent on her (FIL phoned up DH to 'tell him off') I was beyond fuming, we'd put loads of thought into those gifts and we were struggling last year for money.
A big birthday of mine was this year and I got random thoughtless bits of nonsense, stuff I wouldn't ever buy, she's never seen me with before and I didn't want and DH says I was being ungrateful (I wouldn't ever do that to mil face but had a moan to DH in private) and normally I'd just be thankful and leave it but after her joke of a reaction last year I'm very unwilling to bother with her presents, now it's nearing Christmas I'm feeling rather miserable about it again and I've told DH that he can sort MIL present this year.
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To be annoyed with MIL
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Mother86 · 02/11/2016 19:06
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