Ok, background
Split from abusive h in July, issues over contact ever since for various reasons. I do not restrict contact but he does not want it during reasonable hours.
His latest thing is to attack dd's bedtime . She is 4. I have her in bed for 7. She just started school, and is visibly tired and for a child that used to fuss and fight a bedtime we now have problem free bedtimes as she is shattered.
He is saying that her bedtime is earlier then needed and I have done this intentionally so he can't see her midweek.
I've offered him to take her after school and bring her back at 6 (6.30 latest) fed, or 5.30 if I'm feeding her.
Extra info: he finishes work at 2. Is home by 3. Lives 5 mins away. Wants to take her out after dinner cos he wants to rest/nap after work and pick her up at 6 for an hour.
He also has form for poor time keeping (routinely bringing her back 2+ hours late)
Aibu?
Is her bedtime ridiculously early for a 4 yr old?
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Dd's bedtime
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GettingScaredNow · 02/11/2016 17:34
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