AIBU to think that dh shouldn't put his shoes on shop furniture?

[frigginell]

Just that really. Abled bodied Dh points to things with his feet by pushing against them with the sole of his shoe. Sometimes it's a big box and it doesn't matter to me quite as much; but it will just as likely be a packet of biscuits on the bottom shelf at the supermarket, one of the children's toys or a piece of display furniture. He did it today with a display footstool - the sole of his shoe actually wiped across it before sliding off back on to the floor – which is what has prompted me to post this.

AIBU to think that I am not in the minority thinking that this is disrespectful and embarrassing? I want the ground to swallow me up every time he does it. When I mention it he usually rolls his eyes at me, gives an inauthentic apology and does it the next time regardless. He says that he cannot understand why I care, and that he does actually make accommodations for me by doing it somewhat less than he would if I weren’t around

[irregularegular]

You are definitely not being unreasonable! Shoes should not touch furniture, soft toys or packets of food!

[RubbishMantra]

Please tell me he doesn't do this to your "intimate areas" when he's trying convey he fancies a shag?

[frigginell]

I'm actually trying to remember Mantra, because that does sound like something he might have done