To post a childish meme to display that I'm fucked off?

(149 Posts)
MaryPoppinsPenguins Wed 02-Nov-16 12:51:03

I am. I know I am... I'm mid thirties with kids and I'm pissed off my friend is having a big party with all our joint friends and didn't invite me & DH.

My DH doesn't care. Everything is like water off a ducks back to him... which kind of annoys me more.

I want to find some perfect 'didn't invite me to your party, well Fuck you' meme but a) I wouldn't know where to look, b) I'm not a teenager and c) I'm sure I would regret it.

But I still want to. I need to get over it don't I?! blush

Sassypants82 Wed 02-Nov-16 12:52:25

Why do you think you weren't invited?

MaryPoppinsPenguins Wed 02-Nov-16 12:53:07

Absolutely no idea...

ilovesooty Wed 02-Nov-16 12:53:51

You could of course ask her.

Wrinklytights Wed 02-Nov-16 12:54:07

Yes YWBU to post a PA meme, yanbu to be hurt. Why not just ask your friend if there is a reason you weren't invited and say you are hurt at being left out.

ilovesooty Wed 02-Nov-16 12:55:03

Sorry wrinkly said it much better.

MaryPoppinsPenguins Wed 02-Nov-16 12:55:38

I can't ask... I don't even think she knows I know about it. I accidentally found out because a mutual friend assumed I was going...

ilovesooty Wed 02-Nov-16 12:56:41

In that case I think that's even more reason to ask.

destinywidow Wed 02-Nov-16 12:58:49

Well I'm bored and I've found a few memes.

But

Do you think it was a mistake? Miscommunication or something and you might be invited? Ask your friend, nothing to lose either way.

mum2Bomg Wed 02-Nov-16 12:59:07

Google 'Make your own meme' - then you can make the perfect one smile

DoYouRememberJustinBobby Wed 02-Nov-16 12:59:37

Oh God don't be that person.

MaryPoppinsPenguins Wed 02-Nov-16 13:00:32

I don't think it was a mistake... she's seen me loads including this morning and has never mentioned a thing.

Just for fun.... can I see the memes?! grin

NavyandWhite Wed 02-Nov-16 13:03:01

It must hurt not to be invited. Personally I wouldn't post the PA memes. However I would ask her why I hadn't been invited.

WussyWat Wed 02-Nov-16 13:03:15

grin

Of course don't post it, you're better than that. But if you do can come you come back and let us know her reaction?

MaryPoppinsPenguins Wed 02-Nov-16 13:03:41

I won't post anything, I'm just really annoyed. I'm mostly annoyed for my kids, who's friends will all be going to a big party and talking about it at school and my oldest will feel like shit. I hate it.

Notthecarwashagain Wed 02-Nov-16 13:04:20

Hopefully it's just an oversight. Poor you though, horrible feeling!
Don't post a meme!
Here's one for you to not post.

ByeByeLilSebastian Wed 02-Nov-16 13:06:42

Ooh I'd be tempted too op! Can you think of even the smallest reason you weren't invited?
I'd post the meme and then kick myself for being so childish, all whilst secretly loving how PA I'm being.

WussyWat Wed 02-Nov-16 13:08:40

grin

NavyandWhite Wed 02-Nov-16 13:08:47

I'd say " mutual friend mentioned the party that everyone has been invited to, are we invited too? " smile <-- painted in smile.

If you don't ask how are you going to past it?

NavyandWhite Wed 02-Nov-16 13:09:16

ON not in hmm

destinywidow Wed 02-Nov-16 13:09:17

grin

destinywidow Wed 02-Nov-16 13:09:50

grin

MmmmWine Wed 02-Nov-16 13:10:34

Really hope it's an oversight...

BeyondReasonablyDoubts Wed 02-Nov-16 13:10:38

..... wink

Wrinklytights Wed 02-Nov-16 13:11:18

Seriously, just ask her!! There may have been a misunderstanding, or there might be something else going on, like your kids have fallen out or something. What's the worst that could happen?

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