People who know me would say I'm not particularly thin-skinned.
But one of the things that used to really get me down when I was in my old job (academia) was the willingness of colleagues to abrasively tear one another to pieces, be highly disprespectful of others' lives and beliefs when those beliefs weren't harming anyone, and generally having nasty ad-hominem attacks being the normal mode of interaction (and then telling people who said "this is not reasonable" that they couldn't cope and shouldn't be in science).
This includes large quantities of racism and bigotry, dressed up as the right to free speech.
I've just been reminded of it by accidentally walking back into an argument that I should've avoided, on Facebook. I attempted to offer a rational take on a problem and got torn to shreds and told I should stay out of it because I am apparently an academic failure (because I left my job a few years ago) and a fing religious nutjob with no fing clue and no right to wade into discussions I don't understand. Ah thanks, yes I'd conveniently forgotten that some of my former colleagues (who also don't work on the problem being discussed) disliked me because i thought religious bigotry was unacceptable.
Grr.
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Abrasive twunts. Just have some respect for other people, will you?
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parentsvsPIL · 01/11/2016 21:17
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