He's a nightmare and always has been. He's 15 now, has been stealing from us consistently for years, taking alcohol and cigarettes, money, god knows what else. He goes out and comes back when he feels like it (sometimes after midnight), he says horrible things like his brother is the result of a failed abortion, im a shit parent, my autistic step son is a retard, fuck off and die etc etc. I've involved the community police regarding the stealing and it basically just went over his head. When he was younger he was assessed for special needs and they said he was fine, just needed more discipline (however my eldest son is absolutely fine), he's constantly in trouble at school, to the point where in the last week of school before summer hols they rang me saying "just keep him off until September".
I've tried getting his father to help and he's useless, just laughs at him and encouraged him so I said "you have him then" and he went quiet.
Tonight he apparently got into a fight with my eldest son and came home shouting "that's what you get for raising such a shit son" so I snapped and said "coming from you??". I maybe shouldn't have done but DS1 was sent home from college today suffering an extreme panic attack, ended up at doctors and has been referred to MIND so the last thing I want to hear is him slagging him off. He then got in my face saying "you what?" Etc. Then he walks off with the usual "you're fucked up you mate" etc etc.
I just don't want him here anymore. I've tried with him but he doesn't want to know. He's wrecking my marriage (got in DHs face saying "come on then, I'll get my dad to kick the shit out of you" to which DH walks off saying "I didn't sign up for all this shit".)
He makes the house an unhappy place for DS1 and puts me off my work, I'm on sick at the moment with stress. I've tried his dad again who isn't interested.
DS2 has now stormed out and I don't know where he is or what he's up to. I've found a knife hidden in his room in the past and all sorts.
I want to give up.
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nameChangerHigh · 01/11/2016 17:41
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