My mother is planning a family holiday to Florida for June/July 2017
Am I being unreasonable for refusing to go? Here is my thought process:
First off all there is the cost – A trip to Florida isn’t cheap! And all of our money at the moment is funding our wedding
It’s too close to my wedding – imagine going on holiday a couple weeks before the big day – Stressful!
Haven’t got enough Annual Leave left – Have already booked off 3 weeks for the wedding and honeymoon
Zika Virus – I know the virus hasn’t necessarily spread to Orlando, but with confirmed cases in the state I would be wary. Me and DP want to start trying for a baby as soon as possible after the wedding
I have already mentioned the annual leave conundrum to her and she has said to take it as unpaid leave (that will really help out our financial situation…NOT)
So am I being unreasonable for refusing to join in on what she deems the ‘last’ family holiday? Also to add, I will be the only sibling not going
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BethanyCourt · 31/10/2016 11:42
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