Recently moved back in with MIL as we were struggling to save for a house while renting so she suggested we moved back. We currently don't pay rent, only some money towards bills and food.
I came home today to find BIL and his girlfriend sat on our bed playing with the cat. I know when I went out I closed the bedroom door and I was the last one in there, DP was at work then straight out with his work mates and I was out with MIL so for the cat to even have got in there it means BIL or GF would have to have opened the door to go in there to start with.
This makes me incredibly uncomfortable, I barely know his girlfriend, she's actually quite nasty to me, but despite that neither her nor BIL have any reason to go into the room let alone be sat on our bed
WIBU to say something to either MIL, BIL&GF or DP to stop them going in there when I'm not around again? At the end of the day it is MILs house, not mine, and k feel a bit weird telling her who can and cannot go into what rooms in her home but it also makes me uncomfortable to think they might be/have been in there and I have no idea.
I wouldn't have any problem if I was in there or at least known that they'd gone in, just not comfy with the idea of them being in there without my knowledge.
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To not want people in our room?
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AIlthingmeow · 28/10/2016 23:10
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