So MIL has been great and had our 4 yr old daughter all of this week during the day as she is on half term and we both work full time. MIL has taken DD to her swimming course every day and they've had a really fun time doing lots of stuff in town every day.
When I picked up DD yesterday she told me that Granny had left her alone in the ice cream shop whilst she nipped back home to drop off the wet swimming stuff. I asked her who was supposed to be looking after her and she said that Granny had asked the ice cream shop staff to look after her whilst she was gone for 10 mins.
AIBU to be a bit cross about this? I know that the shop staff were keeping an eye out for her but its not their responsibility and DD is only 4. I feel bad for being cross about it after everything else MIL has done this week but bloody hell - that's my daughter being left alone in a town for 10 mins. Anything could have happened - doesn't really bear thinking about.
I haven't broached the subject with her, DH was going to talk to MIL this morning when he dropped DD off. No doubt when MIL was younger, she probably did leave DH alone in a shop in the village they lived in in the Borders but we are talking 30 years ago and times have changed massively and you don't just leave a 4 year old alone in a shop whilst you nip home (slowly as she's not that agile!!) to drop the swimming stuff off!!!
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carolineal · 28/10/2016 11:41
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