I actually do feel sorry for hI'm, but I'm stuck in the middle here so aibu to feel it's unfair that I'm getting the abuse?
Posted on here a few times about how dh hasn't worked for a while and it's a strain on us financially. I tell my friend and he says he's got places going at his work, it's not well paid and crap hours but it's a job. Before I even get a chance to run it past dh he's arranged an interview for him.
Now he has terrible anxiety when it comes to phone work. I knew he wouldn't like it, but he went to the interview anyway. Or, he tried. He got hopelessly lost, and eventually made his way home two hours late.
Friend got an earful from his manager and now he's fuming with us, saying it's the last time he'll ever help. I did try explaining to him that the job probably won't be suitable (it also clashes with my job hours) but we've felt so pressured into it and it made dh anxiety worse. I can understand his frustration and I've promised never to moan about dh not working again but tbh I don't know if he will ever talk to me again. I feel so torn in frustration about dh, wishing he would just do it, but I'm also upset that df has flipped out on me.
Aibu? I know you guys will tell me straight.
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user1473509591 · 27/10/2016 16:05
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