No holding back please !
My friend wanted to arrange a party for her husband - a weeks notice I said I would defiantly be there even if my husband was at work . The next day husbands best friend
The next day husbands best friend died unexpectedly . She asked how he was told her the truth terrible etc . It hadn't occurred to me she would expect us there this weekend at the part until some comment she made. I explained we would go for a hour or so but my husband wasn't in the mood really and I didn't want to leave him on his own ( first bereavement very close and unexpected ) she has said she is annoyed I didn't give her more notice she has only a free others going and has bought lots of food and drink - Aibu in thinking she is been a twat for expecting him to stay home and me go ?
Under such circumstances ( he's been off work I had to leave work early as he was in such a state ) would you expect people to
- remember things like get togethers
- expect then to still be going
- leave there partner to come and get pissed with you ?