DP has dsd all week this week as her mum is away. He has taken the week off, but I decided to take the week off as well as dp doesnt drive and taking dsd to school involves an hour drive on a route with no dorect public transport.
Im haooy to do this (despite dp not actually saying thank you, but I suppose its part of the deal with having dsd) but hadnt realised it was going to involve after school activities every day of the week.
Yesterday was school drop off (1 hour), school pick up (1 hour) taking her to gymnastics at 6pm (1 hour) and picking her up 3 hours later (1 hour)
As a non driver, i really dont think that dp understands that this is a lot, and is tiring.
So today I suggested that she skips her 1 hour evening dance class, as a one off as its so far away when shes at ours. Dp is adamant that its completely unfair for dsd to have to miss the class jusy because shes staying at ours. And says that if I dont want to he'll sort it out.
So i say to him jusy now if hes ok with getting dsd to the class himself and he seems surprised that I was actually being serious and is now muttering about needing to see if someone else can give him a lift. AIBU in standing my ground with this? Its only wednesday and im knackered from all the driving, and although I took this week off to help out, I was also hoping for some downtime in the evenings.
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To not give him a lift?
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MsMarvel · 26/10/2016 17:09
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26/10/2016 18:39
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