SIL is quite immature & self focussed. Big age gap between her & DH and by all accounts has been indulged. She comes across as very entitled, though she has some lovely qualities too and I don't dislike her.
When she was expecting her first child, she asked if she could borrow several items that DD had outgrown - furniture, crib etc. I was reluctant as intended to reuse when we had second child & wanted to keep it all "nice". DH talked me round though, so we made the 200+ mile round trip to drop everything to her.
Fast forward a couple of years and I am now expecting my second baby. Furniture came up in a conversation with MIL, so I mentioned that we would be asking SIL to return what we had loaned her. MIL broke the news that when SIL moved out of family home to set up with her new man, she left all of our furniture behind and it would be uncomfortable for her to deal with getting it back as she and exBIL are not on good terms (she cheated on him). Her suggestion was that we liaise directly with exBIL to get everything back.
AIBU to be pissed off that we now have to organise the return of our belongings and more than likely make the huge trip again to collect it all, without so much as a thank you, or an apology for our inconvenience, While SIL is shielded by MIL from even having to discuss it with us?
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To never go out of my way for her again - SIL
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BooeyBubbleHead · 25/10/2016 22:35
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