We have been together for almost 10 years, married for 5. And for the last 5 years or so we go to bed at seperate times. I usually go to be between 9.30pm and 10pm on week days and get up around 7am or when the kids wake.
Hubby goes to bed between 10 and 11pm and gets up 6.20am on week days.
I feel we are drifting apart and have asked him to come to bed at same time at least 4 4 nights a week but he refuses and will only come to bed if he thinks he will get some action.
I miss the closeness and communication that we use to have from just going to bed at same time - we use to spend half hour before going to sleep just chatting and cuddling (and often dtd)
It always ends up with an argument when i ask him to come to bed.
Do you think i am being unreasonable in asking him to join me?
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AIBU to expect hubby to come yo bed at same time at least 4 nights of the week?
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ilovecakeandbiscuits · 24/10/2016 14:32
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