AIBU? I went on a hen do last Friday and one of my good friends did not stop having a go at me in front of people I didn't know. It was so embarrassing! This year I have lost 5 stone and am not overweight anymore. I have been big for over 10 years. When I got to the hen do I was 10 mins late as I had other childcare commitments they knew about. She accused me of being drunk and said oh no you just act like it. I was trying to eat my afternoon tea and she kept making snidey comments about I shouldn't be eating that food. I said I have been good all week on SW and going to enjoy myself and not worry about it. If I put on a couple of pound no big deal. Then she accused me of being stupid and extremely vulgar everytime I was making a joke or laughing in front of others.
We went out in the afternoon when she kept making snidey comments towards me - any opportunity. I just ignored them I was trying to have a good time. She was talking non stop to me about her diet tbh I thought it was boring. She is overweight and not been successful on her diet this year at all.
We went out for the evening meal. I was drinking and we had a 3 course meal. She kept shouting "wow its amazing what you can eat on this diet"! Smart a*ss remarks all night long & "its one thing losing all this weight its quite another maintaining it!!". Plus lots of sneers about me being vulgar on the hen do when I was just enjoying myself and laughing with people. My friend said "blimey I see the fun police is here again!". She didnt stop going on. In the end I moved away from her in the club as I was getting sick of her. When we went back to our hotel room I was joking about a friend having a lesbian fling and she shouted at me with a deadpan look on her face that she was really concerned about me, what the hell going on with me? I retaliated said I was really concerned about her shes gone boring not having one drink on the hen do or eating her meals! In the morning I had gone down for breakfast I had cheese with my toast. She shouted over look she has cheese on her toast! Shes not following her diet and everyone was looking over. I just could not believe it. It really peed me off. I did not mention one thing about being on a diet and had been strict all week because I knew I would be drinking and eating off plan. I really have tried to help her all year long with her diet with tips etc and meal planning. I feel she just tried to show me up all weekend and is not happy for me. AIBU?
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