Ok, so it's not really an AIBU, more of a WWYD.
Our much loved family dog has cancer. She's very old and, although we've tried our best to extend her life and keep her as comfortable as we can for whatever days she had remaining we've now had to make the heartbreaking decision to have her put to sleep .
We've booked for the Vet to come to the house on Monday to do the deed so she can pass away peacefully in a familiar place with DH and I by her side. What we don't know, however, is how we're going to break the news to our DDs (aged 6 & 9).
I'm leaning towards telling them tomorrow so that they get a chance to come to terms with it & say their goodbyes but then I also don't want to have to send them to school on Monday upset & thinking about what is happening to their best friend at home. Keeping them off school is not something that I really want to do as the atmosphere in the house is going to be extremely emotional and I'm not sure I really want them exposed to that. Yes, I want them to grieve and will probably have a little cry with them but I want to be able to be strong for them & help them through it and I'm not sure I can be when the actual deed is talking place. I think seeing their DM & DF so upset will probably upset them even more.
The other option, of course is not to say anything until they come home from school and DDog is gone but I feel that would be robbing them of the chance to say goodbye and might upset them even more.
So we really don't know what to do for the best. Would welcome any advice from any helpful MNers out there.
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4foxsake · 15/10/2016 18:05
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