Aibu to think men should follow this too?
We're always being told we should stay safe. Not get too drunk, not go home with men we don't know, not get into dodgy taxis, not dress provocatively, get to know a man before having sex with him. Or else we are risking being raped.
Surely the same should apply to men so they are not putting themselves into a position where they might be accused of rape.
Shouldn't we be telling men not to shag drunk young women that they've just met?
Why is it acceptable for men to behave like animals but not women?
I'll admit that in my late teens I had a few drunken one night stands, definitely not rape, but then I also got into a couple of tricky situations when drunk with men that I did not want to have sex with but who were frightening and forceful, where I could have easily been raped but luckily for me I managed to get away.
Does that mean that if I had been raped the fact that I'd previously consented while drunk means none of those men were at all culpable?
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Women should be more careful and stay safe
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Lighthouseturquoise · 14/10/2016 21:17
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