My DP has a DD ( now 13). In Summer 2014 his ex told him that she was thinking of moving to Oz and would he give his permission to let her go. She had met a fella out there after numerous trips to visit her brother who lives in Australia.
DP agreed and signed relative paperwork. His relationship with his DD had been very on/off, not helped by a mother who refused to let him parent e.g she just turned up after her daughter rang to say she didn't want the food her dad was giving her, she then took DD home, long story.
So Sept 2014 they leave. The mum marries the Ozzie and that's that.
We then find out that grandparents bring DD (their granddaughter) back to the UK in Feb this year. My DP contacts the grandparents in order to find out what's gone on and to re-establish a relationship with his daughter.
The story is that DD cannot go to school in Australia yet??? Until her mum gets citizenship? Or she can't go to the 'right' school? We aren't totally sure. So she's sent back and resumes school in Year8, living with gp but spending some of the weekend with us.
Now gp have had enough, temper tamtrums, screaming, shouting, swearing at them. Mum refuses to let her live with us??
DP is currently at their house. They've called social services and the police.
They just can't take anymore.
Anyone know anything about Australian schooling? Citizenship? They live in Perth. It all seems odd to me!
I felel so sorry for the kid, abandoned by her mum while she carries on with her new husband in a new country. You get sent back to live with your grandparents.
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BG2015 · 14/10/2016 19:02
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