DP and I are getting married next year and we want to be reasonably frugal. We are happy to spend money where we think it will be appreciated by us and our guests, and we are very lucky that my parents are paying for the reception, which will be relaxed and low-key and will have a bit of a rustic feel to it, however the other costs are still adding up for us and we aren't in a position to spend unnecessarily.
We thought that as the best man and ushers own decent suits and we aren't having a really formal day we could just buy the best man a tie and pocket square to match DP and get him a boutonniere, rather than buy him a matching suit. We don't think he would be at all fussed! One of the ushers (my brother) has recently bought a lovely suit that clashes with our wedding colours. So my solution would be to get matching boutonnieres for the groom, ushers, best man, and perhaps both our dads, but they can all wear whatever suits they already have, and then differentiate the best man by giving him a matching tie and pocket square to the groom. Would that look OK?
We have bought dresses for the bridesmaids although they were a bargain! Buying suits for the best man and potentially the ushers would cost us a lot of money and we just don't think it's that important that they match as long as they have some detail that signifies they are in the wedding party. What do people think?
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BarbaraAtTheGardenParty · 14/10/2016 08:02
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