To be a moody bitch and hate my life

(8 Posts)
Mousedl1 Thu 13-Oct-16 22:10:50

I work full time and also study and DH works full time and we have 3 DC. DH is signed off worth work stress and today he managed to take 1 DC to school while I took the littlest to nursery (eldest goes themself). I have come home from a 12 hour day and DH has managed to collect kids and that is literally it. I just want to cry I hate my life and right night can't bear to look at him. AIBU thinking he is a selfish dick and he has been home all week and done nothing not as much as our the Hoover round. To top this he has arranged for nephew to have his friends here tomorrow evening for his birthday and I want to go out for the day and not help sort the house or be here for event as I have had enough.
I have gone to bed to stop me wanting to poke DH in the eye with a rusty fork as I am working everyday and still do everything when he is home clearly watching to and doing nothing

Biscuitsneeded Thu 13-Oct-16 22:13:08

Could have written your message. It sucks. Bloody men.

gettingitwrongputtingitright Thu 13-Oct-16 22:14:34

Does he normally pull his weight? I would cancel yhe arrangement hes made for tomorrow.

Wolfiefan Thu 13-Oct-16 22:15:14

Does he have stress or depression? Depression may make it hard for him to function at home and perhaps a bit of empathy would be called for? Unless this is just how he's always behaved. In which case why did you put up with it for long enough to have 3DCs? confused

Mousedl1 Thu 13-Oct-16 22:16:34

Ow and then he had the nerve to ask if I had phone the company about our sofa- NO I have been at blood work blush

ilovesooty Thu 13-Oct-16 22:18:53

I'm also wondering if he is receiving treatment for depression and how his current state of mind impacts on his day to day activities.

FedupofbeingtoldIcantusemyname Thu 13-Oct-16 22:35:25

Op, I totally get how you feel and it sucks. I was in your position 4 years ago. I would come home at 10pm and find nothing done, while he had been at home all day playing on the computer. I think he probably was depressed but I was as sympathetic as could be and tried to help and he just refused to get help over and over. 8 yrs later, I couldn't do it anymore and I left.

I hope you manage to sort things, good luck flowers

wobblywonderwoman Thu 13-Oct-16 22:40:27

I couldn't stick it. What exactly did he do all day?

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