i don't know if im bu or not...
my dp means well, but he is awful with things. he will be the type who will be on the floor and need me looking after him, instead of him rubbing my back, helping me breath or whatever. when he came along to one of my blood tests he kept making noises as the needle was getting close to my arm which was fucking irritating and off putting for the nurse, etc. he just isn't good with things like that. he sits there and always goes through the worst case scenario out fucking loud, so i can just imagine it now. after all this, he still wants to be there for the birth.
dsis has had 3 children, she knows how it is, she would ultimately be the best person to be there, she will be able to keep me calm but not make it all about her. i don't know if ill get through it without her and with my dp there... i keep trying to subtly imply this to dp but he isn't really getting it... i feel like i should just come out with it and say i don't want him there for the birth.
of course he would be the first person to come into the room but i just don't know if i can have him there!
would i be unreasonable to do this??
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to not let baby's dad be there for birth as i want my sister?
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ABWilk · 12/10/2016 01:58
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