My partner and I are desperately trying to move, but have had issues with referencing twice, with lettings agents.
On a normal year, our annual income is £45k, more than enough to rent a 2 or 3 bed place in kent.
Currently, I am on maternity leave and my partner is still on probation at his new job. His annual salary is £20k.
The first time we saw a place we liked, the lettings agency said we would need a guarantor because he is on probation OR pay 6 months rent in advance.
My partner has the rent money, but it is being held by his parents. It is part of an inheritance he received. His dad refused to give him the money.
The same thing is happening again with another place that we both love. It's close to a train station, so I can commute to London, close to his family and friends in kent, even includes access to a gym.
We can't stay where we are. I was renting a 2 bed flat with my sister and it's getting a bit cramped (3 adults, 1 baby, 2 cats!). Plus, my mum will be moving in with my sister. She is undergoing dialysis, and is very ill, and the flat is better for her than where she is currently living, as there are no stairs and there is lift access.
AIBU to tell him and his parents that this is not a one off situation, that if we want to move we will need them to front the 6 months rent? We can pay back into it easily. I'm worried that this will keep happening and it will take ages to move!
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To ask DPs parents to release his funds?
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melibu84 · 11/10/2016 12:29
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