I'm a mum to three. Youngest is 11 weeks, oldest is 8. Dp works long shifts, sometimes 12 hours + 2 hours traveling.
He's the better cook, and knows what he likes. So he does most of the cooking unless he's not here in the evening. He also does the online food shopping.
I look after the children, do all night feeds and 95% of feeds/nappies. I do the cleaning, but he somehow thinks he does most of it 🙄 As he washes up.
I do the hoovering,polishing,clothes etc.
I do go out to two baby groups every week.
He's making out I don't do anything and I'm just going out socialising all the time 😒🙄
It's really starting to get me down. I had extremely bad postnantal depression with my first two which meant I didn't enjoy them or have any memories. I never left my bed!
so I'm trying to enjoy dd. But I'm sick of being made to feel lazy! I'm so exhausted, yes my dcs bedroom is abit messy. And yes there is sometimes a pair of jeans on the bathroom floor. But does this really mean I don't do much? 😪 I'm sick of him throwing it in my face that he works and pays the bills while I stay at home 😪
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Hatade16 · 10/10/2016 21:12
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