Sorry, I need to give some context.
It's my older brother's significant birthday next month. He lives in a different country to most of our family (by choice). He has been making a big song and dance about his birthday since last year. He has been reminding people and even suggested that we start saving. He is going on a month's holiday with his DW afterwords and is treating himself to a new car. Which is great for him, he can do what he likes.
Initially wanted the whole family to fly out for dinner. Just dinner with us staying at a hotel. It would be a 3 hour mid week flight for 10 including 3 primary school children.
It would have been too expensive and hard to arrange leave for most of us so he has decided to come here as part of a long trip. He has already sent a list of preferred gifts to everyone. Cheapest one is £100. He expects to be taken out for dinner as well as a gift. He has been saying how important birthdays are and how we need to celebrate them.
Now the aibu. It was my birthday on Monday. It wasn't a significant one. I received no phonecall, text, card or gift from my brother on the day or since. I usually call him on a Sunday so not hearing from him during the week is normal.
Part of me wants to mention my birthday and his lack of marking it, especially given his expectations for his birthday. Aibu to mention anything about it?
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Mrbluethecatt · 08/10/2016 21:12
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