I am a Sah to 3 DC. 12 10 and 4. Dh used to work long hours so I pretty much did everything during the week. Now his commute has reduced but TBH he hasn't really changed. Normally this is a bit annoying but Ik as I get abut of a break when Dd3 is at nursery.
However Dd 2 is looking at secondary schools. There have been several open evenings to go to. Dh has come home from work early so I can go with Dd2.,All good. However, he hasn't really done anything bar play with Dd3 whilst I am out.
It came to a head yesterday when I left just after dinner had finished. I came home to all the pots left exactly where I left them. Dd3 in daytime clothes and a dirty nappy.
Ainu to expect him to do something when I am out?
Tbf he does know I am pissed off as he was around for morning school run and did actually assist for once.
I think deep down though he believes house and kids are my job as he works outside if the home. Should I just accept this?
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Highlandfling80 · 07/10/2016 16:58
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