My mother has been dead for nearly twenty years, since I was a very young girl, and so (obviously) my friends don't know her, although they know she's dead and I think most know it was cancer.
Anyway, recently the friend of a friend who I know a little has lost her mum to cancer. Obviously, this is really sad and I think it's something that's upsetting at any age.
However, my other friends have been talking to me about how awful it is, how immensely sad, how they don't know how she is coping.
I feel as if my own loss is so far in the past that no one gives a toss really. It occurred to me they've never asked me about my mum or what killed her - I think they know it's cancer. They've never asked if she had chemo, if she was ill for a long time. It's like they really don't care.
AIBU to want people to acknowledge she existed?
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Butterflyheaven · 06/10/2016 16:42
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