Dear All,
This is my first message on mumsnet! :) …and my question is, of course, AIBU?
My DP and I both work from home.
Our DC is 1 year old and generally goes to the nursery. In the last 3 days he has been sick and stayed home.
On Sunday I told DP that I need to focus on trainings and works to be done (I am now returned at work after 1 year of MAT leave) so I can’t be with DC.
On Monday, DP had some important works to do and the results has been that DC has been in our office room with us. DP and I of course could not work properly. DC is 1 year old, he needs our attentions. So I repeated the message to DP!
Today DP continued to keep DC in our office room. I was infuriated as I was trying to do an assessment and had also my manager calling me every 10 minutes for an urgency…
So I told again the message and I have been told that I am selfish, that I only think to myself and that there is no more to discuss.
AIBU to ask him to take some hours off to follow our DC? I have just now returned, after 1 year…I also guess that it is a right of mine to work!
Please be honest and direct, I am ready!
Sorry for any mistake, but I am not English and still learning.
Thanks
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DC sick, at home, with 2 working parents...AIBU?
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Pukka1983 · 04/10/2016 14:51
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