I spoke with DM last night about chemo (that she had got through about 4 years ago) for ovarian cancer. We also talked about diabetes (she has been recently diagnosed type 2) we were talking through dietary changes and what awful repercussions there are of not controlling your diet. She recognises she needs to make some changes but then went on to say 'I've brought my children up yes I have grandchildren but you can look after your own children. She then said she would not be bothered if she died now.' DM is not old by any standard! Mid 50s! Of course she loves her GC and my sibling and I. But it's really disturbed me coming off the phone last night when she said she's not afraid of death or dying. AIBU to upset by this? I feel she's being fatalistic. That there is so much to live for. She was a bit lump in throat as she was speaking. I found it a hard conversation. It's left me shook up.
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