I've had enough of her attitude. Nothing my other half ever does will be good enough.
She constantly bangs on about things OH is apparently failing at. She compares our housing status to DPS brothers. We rent a 3 bed semi. He and his wife own a big 4 bed detached (which he wouldn't own without his wife due to his salary). She seems to think we live in a time where 100% mortgages are given out like sweets. She dismisses the fact that things have totally changed since she bought her house over 30 years ago.
This had been the theme since OHS grandad died (before that it was threatening to withhold inheritance because she says people on low incomes can't be trusted).
Now she has switched to constantly ridiculing my other half and my boys appearances.
The other week when the kids went back to school DS1 started reception. He was really excited to show people his uniform. She decided to rip into OH (in front of ds1) because OH had mistakenly put an odd (but same coloured just a bit big. It was one of my DDs who is older so bigger) sock on him. Ds1 was really sad. School is a big deal. He is autistic and had been looking forward to showing off his new uniform and she went on stupid over a sock.
Today it's my other half. He went round to see her with ds2. His mum immediately started ripping into DPs appearance telling him he looks like an absolute scruff and should basically be ashamed of himself and he's an embarrassment.
He doesn't look scruffy in my opinion. He's not working today. He has jeans and a v neck jumper on. They're freshly washed and there's nothing wrong with the clothes. They fit fine.
She also lays into him for not shaving daily.
He works with children who have autism and downs syndrome and one of the boys he has on a Friday is really scared by facial hair so he shaves for that. Not that it's any of her business. Plenty of men have beards. But just to show how hard she is digging for shit to throw at him.
She's invited us to a party in January and I really don't want to go. I am not going to sit around family and have her make examples of us for everything she deems wrong.
Would you go? Would you say something? I really am fed up of having my family ridiculed and held up against others.
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IceIceIce · 03/10/2016 15:56
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