I know of course this won't be the case for everyone but it just seems so in my experience.
Thinking of all the people I know, families with step dads mostly just seem to just get on with it. Perhaps it's because the mum does most of the parenting, but I've rarely heard step dads complaining about their stepchildren and more often seem to play good cop when the kids are acting up.
I've got quite a few friends that are step mums, they all have massive issues either with the kids or the ex.
It's always that they resent how much maintenance their partner pays, or they resent their partner putting his children first as in prioritising time with his kids. Or they have issues with the step children's behaviour (which to me always sounds normal), or they accuse the ex of taking liberties of having too much of a nice lifestyle, or they say their partners access time rules theirs lives and so on.
There's the old stereotype of the wicked stepmother isn't there.
Is there anything in it? Or perhaps men sit back too much and play piggy in the middle?
All I know is I've seen usually lovely friends turn into horrible stepmothers.
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To think maybe women find it more difficult being step parents?
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Strangeday · 28/09/2016 11:58
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