Yes people can be vile on some threads and go in for personal attacks. They can't be nice to be on the end of.
However of late, I've noticed that an ops are sometimes very ready to claim 'you're all vile and I'm being bullied' and storm off in high dudgeon, simply because they aren't getting the responses they wanted and they don't like people disagreeing with them. Sometimes the responses can be quite critical of the op's conduct and be expressed in robust terms , but so long as it isn't a personal attack, I think that's probably fair enough. To my mind there's a huge difference between telling someone:
'I think what you did yesterday was dangerous and could have had serious consequences for your child' is not what someone wants to hear but isn't bullying.
Whereas 'you sound like a shit parent, how did you sleep last night? I can only hope social services are around tomorrow to take your kids away' probably is bullying. as it takes the form of a character assassination
On these boards I see a lot of the former and rather less of the latter.
Am i being unreasonable to think that if you ask a question, you should expect an answer you may not agree with or am I being blase about this issue and AIBU is genuinely becoming a haven for bullies?
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LikeDylanInTheMovies · 26/09/2016 12:12
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