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To think it's odd that DD wasn't allowed to wear a tank top for non uniform and was made to put on her PE top?

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Radia · 23/09/2016 22:41

DD is 10 and they have a bloody non uniform day Shock so soon already (it was a charity thing). Not that I care, by DD faffs around all night deciding what to wear.

She wore a tank top and jeans. Oh no, that wasn't allowed? We weren't given a list of things that were allowed/weren't allowed. She was told she needed at least short sleeves so had to put on her PE polo.

Isn't this really odd?

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WaitroseCoffeeCostaCup · 23/09/2016 22:42

What is a tank top?

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Radia · 23/09/2016 22:44

Something like this

To think it's odd that DD wasn't allowed to wear a tank top for non uniform and was made to put on her PE top?
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WaitroseCoffeeCostaCup · 23/09/2016 22:46

Oh I thought you were going to say it was cropped or something! Nope, they were being weird. Is the central heating broken? Is it a church school?

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DappledThings · 23/09/2016 22:47

That's what I think they call a tank top in the US. To me a tank top is a knitted sleeveless jumper that would be very odd to wear with nothing underneath. That is what I'd call a vest top

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Radia · 23/09/2016 22:47

Oh, I just always call it a tank top.

Yes, it's Roman Catholic actually!

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NowThatsClosureJen · 23/09/2016 22:47

I would say that top is definitely not appropriate for a 10 year old.

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MaitlandGirl · 23/09/2016 22:47

They're not allowed vest tops or scrappy tops on non-uniform days at our high school but that's for sun safety. Wouldn't have thought it was a problem this time of the year in the U.K.

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Radia · 23/09/2016 22:48

Why's it not appropriate? She wears them all the time Confused

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FireFLYing19 · 23/09/2016 22:48

Is that all she wore? No cardi or jacket?

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gabsdot · 23/09/2016 22:48

I agree, too skimpy for school.

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DrAddisonMontgomery · 23/09/2016 22:48

I don't think it's appropriate for school. You should have put your foot down.

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Radia · 23/09/2016 22:49

Put my foot down? I didn't have an issue, I had no idea it would be an issue.

No, she had a jacket that she wore to school with it, but when she was there she took that off

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Gileswithachainsaw · 23/09/2016 22:50

God my dd and I live in those....

Like fuck is it inappropriate

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gallicgirl · 23/09/2016 22:50

Woohoo! Body shaming for ten year olds.

Hmm . I think I'd be querying the reason for this with school.

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HandmaidsTail · 23/09/2016 22:50

In what way is it inappropriate? Because she has bare arms and shoulders?

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RitchyBestingFace · 23/09/2016 22:52

Don't know where you are but it was about 24 degrees in the SE so perfectly appropriate for a summer's day. They are being weird. Not much you can do about it though.

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RebelRogue · 23/09/2016 22:55

Gabs skimpy!?!? She's 10!! All they can see is shock horror arms and shoulders!!

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GiddyOnZackHunt · 23/09/2016 22:55

Is her PE top logo'd?
I think it may have been Jeans for Genes today and I'm the past when our school did it, they had to wear uniform top with jeans on their legs.

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RiverTam · 23/09/2016 22:56

DD is at a non-uniform primary and about the only rule they have is no sleeveless tops. Having said that, I doubt they'd actually say anything.

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Radia · 23/09/2016 22:57

Ah, that was it! But no, they can wear what they want as long as a £1 is brought in

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Bedsheets4knickers · 23/09/2016 22:59

That's a vest top , a tank top is thicker and has an inch more shoulder.. Not too much difference really x

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midcenturymodern · 23/09/2016 22:59

I have a 10 yo. She has worn stuff like that for none uniform and it would't have occurred to me to put my foot down either. Also a RC school.

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Bedsheets4knickers · 23/09/2016 23:02

My 3 year old lived in these all summer

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Ptarmigandancinginthegloaming · 23/09/2016 23:03

I guess they felt it was too little clothing, but they should really write down what their rules are if that's the case. My DCs school has a rule of 'no beach wear' which sort of covers this space.

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kissingJustForPractice · 23/09/2016 23:03

I dunno. I am thinking "How is that skimpy or inappropriate?" but turning it round in my head if a boy wore it I would think too scruffy for school.

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