To think that if a man messages you about sex all the time

(10 Posts)
Lottielou272 Tue 20-Sep-16 00:10:42

It's the main thing they want from you?

I recently got in touch with a man who I haven't seen since we were children. He says he likes me as a person and finds me interesting. We have had long conversations on the phone (not about sex).

He doesn't live near me, but says he's moving back to this area. He sends me a lot of texts asking for sexy pictures and I've started thing he might only want me for sex. Although he says not - he says he wants us to be more.

Does this sound strange to you?

ImissGrannyW Tue 20-Sep-16 00:16:16

I think it's strange anyone asks anyone to send them sexy pictures, but I'm old and I have an almost 15 yr old DD. Personally I'd think "creep" and avoid, avoid.

Unless all you want is sex too? In which case, have fun!

Lottielou272 Tue 20-Sep-16 00:21:03

No I would want a relationship with this person

Lottielou272 Tue 20-Sep-16 00:21:39

I've had casual relationships in the past and ended up being used

Lottielou272 Tue 20-Sep-16 00:22:05

Feeling used is what I mean. I'm done with all that

AmeliaJack Tue 20-Sep-16 00:22:07

He sounds about 16yo to be honest.

Hard to tell on line but doesn't sound like a good long term bet.

Lottielou272 Tue 20-Sep-16 00:23:24

He is very intelligent though - maybe that is clouding my view.

LilQueenie Tue 20-Sep-16 00:23:48

sounds immature and incapable of a relationship. I would probably tell him that too.

AmeliaJack Tue 20-Sep-16 00:24:58

Intelligence and maturity are entirely separate attributes.

Bogeyface Tue 20-Sep-16 00:46:56

Five will get you ten that he is either married or in a serious relationship. I would bet that there will be a reason that he cant move to where you are.....

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