Drove up the motorway to see her yesterday with partner and daughter - who's at university.
She's in her late eighties now. With my daughter I shopped for lunch, cooked it and served it. My husband helped me wash up. Later in the afternoon I served tea and cake. I asked my mother after her health and her social activities.
She asked my daughter about her studies and my husband about his elderly father. Also about the business that we both run.
She didn't smile at me or say it was good to see me. She never once during a visit of seven hours asked me any question about my work or my life or what I was doing.
I try to be civil in view of her age, but the lack of engagement distresses me.
Fortunately she is fond of my brothers, who are both in touch with her regularly.
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JennieLee · 19/09/2016 10:41
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