I'm 23 and my step-sister is 18. She's about to leave for university and she's just confided in me that she met a man on a recent trip to Amsterdam who is 28.
I am very worried. It's not a case of they got on and discussion of age came after. She very obviously looks 18 or younger even so he would have known before he even approached her.
Apparantly he is a 'photographer' who is quite well known in his field and travels constantly. Sounds a load of shit (pardon my language) to me but I suppose it could be true.
She is going to start uni soon and has decided to invite him to stay!!! In her halls. She barely knows him. She says she has told her mum but I assume she does not know the full story as she is not fussed?
I don't think I set a good example as when I was 17 I went out with a man 11 years my senior but he was very emotionally immature and still lived with his parents even so hardly concerning. She's obviously confided in me because she seeks approval or advice as I'm never usually privy to her personal life.
What should I do!? I don't want to push her away but I would feel awful if she was hurt by this. She's very naive- or it could be harmless. I worry she is being manipulated as she's already talking about "love at first sight"
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Noodledoodle123 · 11/09/2016 02:25
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