Not an aibu as much as a wwyd
Me and my mum are due to go on holiday on sat 17th booked and paid for months ago, a package holiday a week in the sun s/c just the two of us
She now has a funeral to attend on 19th. It's my uncle and I'm probably not going, he had been living abroad so we weren't that close, although I travelled to see him recently when he was in hospital.
I don't get on especially well with the family and feel i said what I needed to/he knew I was there when I went to the hospital. We knew he wasn't getting better even though he became ill quickly, was told he had about 6 weeks left and dies a week later .
Mum is going to the funeral as its her brother.
It is too late to amend names or departure date on holiday (100% cost to amend these within 14days)
For info whilst he was seriously ill in hospital his mum and sister went on holiday, other sister flew to America and other brother never visited him once
I dont know what to do 'for the best' re our holiday. I've had a tough few months and really could do with a break
Options are
- cancel holiday - mum can claim on insurance (as close family members funeral) but I can't (not close enough relation to me)
She would get money back (less excess, not sure how much this is)
I would lose all of mine
- I go on holiday as planned - mum gets flight after funeral
Mum gets shorter holiday for cost of extra flight (c75£)
I get full holiday and lose nothing
It seems either way one of us is going to lose out. Spoke to travel Co and they won't make any exception re the fees
I don't know what to do for the best. If we still go and mum joins me later I feel bad she gets a shorter holiday and has to pay for another flight when she could reclaim the holiday cost and go another time
But if we cancel and she gets her money back then I will lose all of mine
As we can amend booking I can't even take a friend /hubby away instead
Hol cost was £400pp if that helps (had already paid to bring it forward a week after mum was invited to a wedding)
WWYD? I can't even think straight