AIBU to feel uncomfortable? I share a flat with two people, both students. They're in a relationship. They share a room and have turned the second bedroom into their private living room. I have a larger room (what should be the living room). The three of us share a kitchen and bathroom.
I am feeling more and more that they don't want me around. They have made it plainly obvious they are having sex - lubricant left lying around the flat, sex in the bath a couple of times so I can't use the loo until they're done.
They've bought lots of new stuff for the kitchen - they now have 4 cupboards to share (I have 2) and have set the table for themselves with placemats etc. I feel extremely uncomfortable sitting with them so sit in my room, eat on my bed or sofa.
The thing that's annoyed me today is that female flatmate has started walking around in her knickers and a t shirt. Walked into kitchen to get a drink and they were sitting having breakfast - she just had her knickers and a top on, he had on jeans/shirt. I don't know why it made me uncomfortable, I felt that I was intruding on their space and so went back to my room until I heard them leave. Not the first time, I've seen her do this mid afternoon, evening as well etc.
There's a language barrier as they are both Italian as is the landlord, but I can cope with that - I'm very quiet anyway and they don't seem interested in making much conversation.
I don't know what to do. I can't afford to rent by myself , and haven't got anyone else I could share with . I'm hoping to move to new city next spring to start a second degree, make a new life for myself but that's at least 9 months away still.
I don't feel comfortable asking her about it, I think she'd be embarrassed or maybe annoyed that I feel this way. I don't even know her partner's name, I introduced myself and tried to make conversation but he appears not to want to.
Perhaps I am just being a bit prudish (British?!) .. I should just put up shouldn't I?
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
AIBU?
Flatmate walks around in her knickers..
74 replies
desperate16 · 03/09/2016 18:38
OP posts:
Arfarfanarf ·
03/09/2016 19:04
This reply has been deleted
Message withdrawn at poster's request.
Arfarfanarf ·
03/09/2016 19:07
This reply has been deleted
Message withdrawn at poster's request.
Don’t want to miss threads like this?
Weekly
Sign up to our weekly round up and get all the best threads sent straight to your inbox!
Log in to update your newsletter preferences.
You've subscribed!
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.