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My son, 2, has just moved into the next room at nursery which is for 2-3 year olds. He is a very confident little boy most of the time, very headstrong and also independent. He has suffered from separation anxiety associated with me since around 10 months old. This would occur initially when I would drop him at nursery then spread to when I dropped him off at my parents (He is there 3 days a week and nursery 2 days), and furthermore to when I would just leave the room.
It had started to get better recently where I could drop him off without him getting upset and reaching to me.
I have noticed since going into the bigger room, he is upset but in a different way., Before he would cry instantly on hearing me getting ready to go, and try to reach up to me. Lately, he will be in the arms of one of the nursery staff and his bottom lip will quiver and he will cry with tears and grab out to me holding on very tight. Or sit on my knee to stop me leaving.
He has played with the bigger toddler room kids whilst in the smaller toddler room an knows the staff very well - one of which has been with him since he started at 6m old and coincidentally moved into the small toddler room when he did.
He is fine a few minutes after I go - I have stayed where he cannot see me and seen this myself - but the change in how he reacts has upset me. Is this normal?
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cjt110 · 31/08/2016 11:58
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