I had my second baby 9 months ago, and DP was pretty useless with our first and I had to do the majority of patenting. If it's even possible he's been even less helpful this time! DC1 is 3 and a half and very much a handful going through a refusal to go to bed stage. DC 2 is still not sleeping through the night, and has taken to waking twice for feeds at the moment. I'm back at work now so I'm absolutely knackered. I put DC2 to bed at 7ish, put DC1 to bed at 8ish although sometimes lately it takes until 9pm to stop the arguments and resistance to sleep. Then I do both the night feeds, get up with kids 6am, get us all ready, drop kids to preschool/nans house then go to work. DP gets up, has breakfast, goes to gym, goes to work, comes home and plays computer/ watches tv. I asked if he could just help me out with a night feed here and there because it's getting too much and he said no he doesn't want to! I was completely outraged at his attitude. It's been a week and we are still not really speaking because I know that he will expect me to just get over it But I don't think I should have to! Would anyone else just let it go?
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AprilSkies44 ·
29/08/2016 17:55
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