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AIBU?

I'm your daddy

209 replies

Boundaries · 29/08/2016 14:50

I have n/c for this.

AIBU to think that an adult man saying "I'm your daddy/who's your daddy/tell my I'm your daddy" during sex is just downright weird?

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Heathen4Hire · 29/08/2016 14:53

Weird. YAnbu.

Trifleorbust · 29/08/2016 14:53

Seriously weird.

MindSweeper · 29/08/2016 14:53

It's weird to me and a bit sick but I suppose some people have different fetishes than I have.

flanjabelle · 29/08/2016 14:54

Yanbu at all. It's gross. I would have serious concerns about someone who wanted to role play being my 'daddy' blergh.

FlappyRose · 29/08/2016 14:54

Really creepy

JacquesHammer · 29/08/2016 14:55

As part of a consenting role play between two adults - fine.

Random outburst during sex - weird.

PotatoBread · 29/08/2016 14:55

Yes, weird and certainly not for me.

Redglitter · 29/08/2016 14:55

Just so wrong

spaghettithrower · 29/08/2016 14:56

Weird.
LTB
Run a mile

MitzyLeFrouf · 29/08/2016 14:56

Bleurgh.

MAJOR turn-off.

LikeDylanInTheMovies · 29/08/2016 14:56

Does this happen in real life? Surely no one does that?

I can't imagine it actually happening outside a skin flick.

Pinkerbeller · 29/08/2016 14:59

YADNBU. Just the thought of it makes my fanjo snap shut and dehumidify.

PurpleDaisies · 29/08/2016 15:00

That would be cause for dumping in my view.

An ex started calling me how "little girl". We split very shortly afterwards.

Boundaries · 29/08/2016 15:02

Dyan I can confirm it happens.

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MoreCoffeeNow · 29/08/2016 15:03

Creepy. Wouldn't happen again. He'd be gone.

MitzyLeFrouf · 29/08/2016 15:03

This is why I don't understand couples who don't have sex before marriage. There are so many important sex things you need to find out about a person!

Helmetbymidnight · 29/08/2016 15:03

Someone on another thread said that clint Eastwood likes this?

Were you with clint Eastwood, op?

acatcalledjohn · 29/08/2016 15:03

I'd be weirded out.

It's commonly used in the US though, especially in popular culture.

Found this on it. First used in the 50s in a film it seems.

PepsiPenguin · 29/08/2016 15:04

I thought this was going to be about a Jeremy Kyle episode...

But in answer to the actual question, it's weird.

I'm guessing this is based upon a recent experience OP given the NC?

Comejointhemurder · 29/08/2016 15:04

It's not my cup of tea but I think in most cases it's not alluding to incest, but the 'I'm in charge' sort of thing a la Ray Winstone in Scum 'I'M the Daddy now!'

timelytess · 29/08/2016 15:05

It just made me laugh. One person I don't want to think about during sex is my dad. Can you imagine? "TimelyTess! What do you think you are doing with that man! You're a disgrace to the family! Go to your room!"
I'm 58.
Grin

Helmetbymidnight · 29/08/2016 15:05

Yeah, I think it's an American thing- which means- like baby showers- it will be coming here soon. Grin

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TheLastRoseOfSummer · 29/08/2016 15:06

I would shutdown immediately from this. I can't imagine even being able to carry on!

TheoGB · 29/08/2016 15:06

On an anecdotal basis (i.e. rubbish films and also quite a lot of stories from friends) this seems to be an American thing. Or at least quite a common occurrence with both American men and women.

Have always found it unfathomably creepy to be honest.

Boundaries · 29/08/2016 15:06

Helmet no, sadly. Although he is very old, so maybe not so good.

There will not be a repeat performance. Do I tell him it's weird?

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