I'm your daddy

(210 Posts)
Boundaries Mon 29-Aug-16 14:50:46

I have n/c for this.

AIBU to think that an adult man saying "I'm your daddy/who's your daddy/tell my I'm your daddy" during sex is just downright weird?

blush sad hmm

Heathen4Hire Mon 29-Aug-16 14:53:08

Weird. YAnbu.

Trifleorbust Mon 29-Aug-16 14:53:38

Seriously weird.

MindSweeper Mon 29-Aug-16 14:53:58

It's weird to me and a bit sick but I suppose some people have different fetishes than I have.

flanjabelle Mon 29-Aug-16 14:54:08

Yanbu at all. It's gross. I would have serious concerns about someone who wanted to role play being my 'daddy' blergh.

FlappyRose Mon 29-Aug-16 14:54:41

Really creepy

JacquesHammer Mon 29-Aug-16 14:55:08

As part of a consenting role play between two adults - fine.

Random outburst during sex - weird.

PotatoBread Mon 29-Aug-16 14:55:10

Yes, weird and certainly not for me.

Redglitter Mon 29-Aug-16 14:55:16

Just so wrong

spaghettithrower Mon 29-Aug-16 14:56:16

Weird.
LTB
Run a mile

MitzyLeFrouf Mon 29-Aug-16 14:56:23

Bleurgh.

MAJOR turn-off.

LikeDylanInTheMovies Mon 29-Aug-16 14:56:25

Does this happen in real life? Surely no one does that?

I can't imagine it actually happening outside a skin flick.

Pinkerbeller Mon 29-Aug-16 14:59:09

YADNBU. Just the thought of it makes my fanjo snap shut and dehumidify.

PurpleDaisies Mon 29-Aug-16 15:00:35

That would be cause for dumping in my view.

An ex started calling me how "little girl". We split very shortly afterwards.

Boundaries Mon 29-Aug-16 15:02:21

Dyan I can confirm it happens.

MitzyLeFrouf Mon 29-Aug-16 15:03:21

This is why I don't understand couples who don't have sex before marriage. There are so many important sex things you need to find out about a person!

MoreCoffeeNow Mon 29-Aug-16 15:03:21

Creepy. Wouldn't happen again. He'd be gone.

Helmetbymidnight Mon 29-Aug-16 15:03:51

Someone on another thread said that clint Eastwood likes this?

Were you with clint Eastwood, op?

acatcalledjohn Mon 29-Aug-16 15:03:58

I'd be weirded out.

It's commonly used in the US though, especially in popular culture.

Found this on it. First used in the 50s in a film it seems.

PepsiPenguin Mon 29-Aug-16 15:04:24

I thought this was going to be about a Jeremy Kyle episode...

But in answer to the actual question, it's weird.

I'm guessing this is based upon a recent experience OP given the NC?

Comejointhemurder Mon 29-Aug-16 15:04:55

It's not my cup of tea but I think in most cases it's not alluding to incest, but the 'I'm in charge' sort of thing a la Ray Winstone in Scum 'I'M the Daddy now!'

timelytess Mon 29-Aug-16 15:05:15

It just made me laugh. One person I don't want to think about during sex is my dad. Can you imagine? "TimelyTess! What do you think you are doing with that man! You're a disgrace to the family! Go to your room!"
I'm 58.
grin

Helmetbymidnight Mon 29-Aug-16 15:05:20

Yeah, I think it's an American thing- which means- like baby showers- it will be coming here soon. grin

TheLastRoseOfSummer Mon 29-Aug-16 15:06:04

I would shutdown immediately from this. I can't imagine even being able to carry on!

TheoGB Mon 29-Aug-16 15:06:23

On an anecdotal basis (i.e. rubbish films and also quite a lot of stories from friends) this seems to be an American thing. Or at least quite a common occurrence with both American men and women.

Have always found it unfathomably creepy to be honest.

Join the discussion

Join the discussion

Registering is free, easy, and means you can join in the discussion, get discounts, win prizes and lots more.

Register now